| Location | Stevenage |
| Age | 55 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 11/03/1925 |
| Date of Death | 16/09/1980 |
| Visitors | 577 since 16/09/2008 |
| Creator |
My Dad Ernest Victor Willing ( Ernie ) was born in North London on 11th March 1925 but due to work he along with my mum and my elder brother and sister moved to Stevenage in the 1960βs where he worked for eastern electricity and later went on to work for Stevenage Borough Council fixing the street lights.
He was diagnosed with throat cancer towards the end of 1979 and he never once complained about all the pain he went through but unfortunately after his courageous battle he sadly lost his fight on the 16th September 1980 aged only 55 years.
My dad is missed so very, very much by his wife Ann who he was married to for 33 years and his four children, Vic, Jackie, Sandra and Mark also by his grandchildren and the family and friends who knew and loved him.
Dad I was only 10 years old when you passed away but I still remember it like yesterday and there isnβt a day that goes by that I donβt think about you, I miss you so very much and I wish you were still here with all of us.
xxxxxxxxxxxxx All my love now & forever from your daughter Sandra xxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
God looked around his Garden and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face.
He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest.
His Garden must be beautiful he always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering; he knew you were in pain.
And knew that you would never get well on earth again.
He saw your path was difficult; he closed your tired eyes,
He whispered to u "Peace be Thine" and gave u wings to fly.
When we saw you sleeping so calm and free of pain,
we would not wish you back to earth to suffer once again.
You've left us precious memories, your love will be our guide,
you live on through our memories, you're always by our side.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you on the day God called you home.
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Special Dad
Hi Dad sorry i haven't been on for a while.
I can't believe that 31 years ago today you passed away the years have flown by but it's a shame we couldn't of had you for all them years. I have probably said this before but i would love to have you back even if it was for just one day but saying that i wouldn't want you to leave again. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts dad and i love you with all my heart. Well dad i hope they are looking after you and i hope you have had a good angel day. Well dad i am going now please keep looking over us all and i will come and talk to you again soon. x x x x x x x x
Special Dad
Hi Dad just wishing you a very happy father's day, i wish you could be here with us all but i know that is not going to happen.
I hope that where ever you are you have a lovely day and that you are getting spoilt rotten.
I will leave some flowers at the cemetery later, i hope you will like them.
Well dad i am going now as i need to get tidied up coz my lovely granddaughter is coming down later and she is crawling now but i will come and chat to you soon. Lots of love from your Daughter Sandra x x x x x x x x
HAPPY FATHERS DAY
Hi dad just popped in to wish you happy fathers day, not a day goes by when i dont think about you, miss you allways love vic and karen x x x x x
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD
HI DAD POPPED IN TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MISS YOU LOADS. HOPE YOU LIKE YOUR FLOWERS. ALL OUR LOVE VIC, KAREN, JODIE N DANNY X X X X X X X
Special Dad
Hello Dad just wishing you a very happy 86th birthday. I wish you could be here with us to celebrate your birthday but as you can't i hope you have a great time in gods lovely garden with all your angel friends.
I love you dad so much and i miss you 24/7 but i know one day we will meet again. I am going to your resting place later to put some flowers on.
Bye for now dad and i will chat to you again soon Lots of love from your daughter Sandra. x x x x x x x x
Special Dad
Our thoughts are with you on this day,
Happy memories come to mind
Of one we loved with all our hearts
And will till the end of time.
Each day we think about you
And realise you have gone,
We can't explain the emptiness
That life has now become.
They say that time's a healer,
But we are not too sure,
For every time we think of you
We miss you more and more.
Special Dad
Morning dad I can't believe that it is 30 years ago today that you left us. I laid in bed last night reliving the whole moment again. I wish that you could still be here with us but deep down I know you can't.
Well dad I am going to the cemetery soon with mum and Jackie to put some flowers on your grave and next week when Vic gets back from his holiday we are hopefully going to get some edging and stones to go in front of your headstone.
I am going now as I have got to get ready but I love you for ever and ever and I will chat to you again soon.
Bye for now your loving daughter Sandra. x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
Special Dad
Hi Dad
Hope you are ok and having a great time in the beautiful garden, i wish you could be here on earth with us i miss you so much.
Mum has got to go hospital tomorrow to get her eyes sorted i know you will be watching over her but i wish you could actually be there with her as i know she is worrying about it. well if only wishes could come true.
Well dad i am off now but i will chat to you again soon.
Love from Sandra. x x x x x x x x
DAD
HI DAD WISHING YOU A HAPPY FATHERS DAY, BEEN TO SEE YOU HOPE YOU LIKE THE PINK ROSES WE PUT UP THERE FOR YOU,WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH,HAVE FUN IN GODS GARDEN LOVE VIC AND KAREN ,JODIE AND DANNY X X X
Special Dad
Hello Dad
Just wishing you a very happy fathers day.
I wish you could be here with us all so that we could pamper you and spoil you rotten but as you can't make sure you have a very relaxing day in gods beautiful garden and make sure that you get pampered too.
I am hoping to put some flowers on your resting place later but i have got a cold at the moment and feel like rubbish so i may not get there til tomorrow but either way you are always in my thoughts. i love you forever from your daughter sandra. x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

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